A Modern-Day Goddess is…

By | June 9th, 2016|Living The Big Stuff|

A modern-day goddess is the divine feminine incarnate with Gaia. The energy of the earth mother’s womb is carried forward in the essence of all light beings. It is abundant. It is brilliantly intelligent. It is nurturing, contractive, expansive and constantly moving in a spiral creating the vortex of transformation—creating the momentum of change.

Don’t Take My Low Mood Personally

By | May 19th, 2016|Living The Big Stuff|

Last night, I was slumped in front of a T.V. show—an old episode of Law & Order that really had me hooked. My daughter walked in to talk with me, and I wasn’t listening very well because I was distracted by the T.V. Moreover, I was also in a mood--a low one. I was super tired and and I just wasn’t being all that present. Something, apparently, was going on for her and she stormed out feeling dejected.

What is the Feeling behind the Words?

By | April 21st, 2016|Living The Big Stuff|

I learned the art of listening to the feelings behind the words one day as Richard and I sat, ironically, in our large house at our children’s miniature table and chairs. It was a funny sight, this grown couple choosing this space to confront their issues while their kids were at school. We were having a rare “marriage moment.”

Offering Your Empty Presence

By | March 17th, 2016|Living The Big Stuff|

My favorite Eleanor Roosevelt quote: “A woman is like a tea bag; you never know how strong it is until it's in hot water.”

We all want to give advice, don’t we? In fact, many of us dive right into solving problems—when all that’s really needed is simply a good ear--an opportunity to get clarity and strength back from having some support.

Retreat: A Safe Container to Nourish Your Soul

By | February 25th, 2016|Living The Big Stuff|

When I was a mother to two small children, I would at times fantasize (in my fatigued state of mind or a lower mood than what was usual) about what it would be like to run away. I knew when I had those thoughts that I was long overdue for some me time. What I needed was a safe haven and a place of recovery to replenish and revitalize, so I could return to my busy life with the kind of enthusiasm that only comes from respite away.

Who’s in Charge?

By | February 4th, 2016|Living The Big Stuff|

Often, it appears that life is running us. It feels like our circumstances are beyond our control.

This may, in fact, be true to some extent, but you don’t have to become the Victim. You don’t have to eliminate any circumstances of your life in order to feel better about them--but you must change your relationship and your mental dynamic toward them.

Heal Your Emotions, Heal Your Body

By | January 21st, 2016|Living The Big Stuff|

There are so many kinds of losses to grieve--not just the obvious in loss of a person. Sometimes, we grieve our perceived lost health.

I received a beautiful message from a woman suffering from chronic fatigue syndrome that inspired this blog post. I’m not a doctor, but dealing with disease points me in the direction of Louise Hay and her work in the Emotional body. Her work shows that emotions literally shows up in physical symptoms. I love her book You Can Heal Your Life. I’ve always had a copy lying around the house as a “go to.”